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You Got Time For This.

In case you need a laugh this Monday I have done my part to provide you one.  Have you seen the fast trending video of Sweet Brown? (2M views as of today) A woman who escaped an apartment fire and created this viral beauty:

But as I knew would happen…the web-comedians were quick to improve on Ms Brown’s video providing us with this catchy new hit:

 
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Posted by on April 16, 2012 in Uncategorized

 

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A Cultural Exegesis on The Hunger Games.

You may have seen my Tweet earlier this week about writing a Cultural Exegesis on the popular book/movie The Hunger Games. I had a couple of friends mention they would like to read it and encouraged me to blog it. I was reluctant at first but think some of you might enjoy it…I would love your thoughts in the comments.  I also should note this was specifically an assignment to consider something in mainstream culture and offer ways the church might effectively engage it.  Enjoy.

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Every once and awhile something comes along in pop culture that you feel you have to participate in, if only to be in the know because everyone is talking about it. These are the kind of things that you hear about at work from a co-worker, over hear people talking about at Starbucks, on the radio in the car, even plastered on the cup from your favorite fast food restaurant. Your kids ask for money to go see the movie, read the book or download the video game on their iTouch…even if you tried you could not escape hearing about it. In our fast paced post-modern world these waves tend to roll through multiple times a year where I believe generations before us had a bunch more time in-between each of them. Sadly many of these cultural phenomenons are filled with lewd behavior making it challenging for church-goers to partake without feeling guilty or tarnishing their reputation. Recently however one of these waves came along which was fairly tame and allowed Christians to interact with mainstream culture well. What I am I talking about? The Hunger Games!

What started in the fall of 2008 as a sleeper hit book for teens (sold fewer than 500,000 copies in 2009) has now become a multimillion dollar grossing box office hit and multimedia franchise selling over 10million books and analysts estimate will gross 400 million at the movies. The book was written by an unknown author Suzanne Collins who says she got the idea for the book while channel surfing between watching a reality TV show and news clips of troops entering Iraq. She also got a bunch of material from the Greek myth of Theseus as well. No doubt what brought so much attention to the hit movie (which grossed 152 million on opening weekend) was the wide acceptance by adolescents who had first read the book. Personally I was a bit late to the game as most adults are when something starts first in adolescent culture. I watched the movie having not read the book beforehand. After enjoying the movie and hearing from many of my friends what was left out from the book I decided to listen to the book on Audible during my current job which involves a ton of driving. I definitely wish I could have done it the other way around as I think it is tough reading the book after seeing the movie as all of the characters are already in your head.

There is a ton to learn from the popularity of the Hunger Games as I believe there always is much for us to learn when something resonates with the majority of people who interact with it. At its core The Hunger Games is a story, a fictional story which has many of the elements which have made stories popular since the beginning of time. I will share a couple of these elements which I saw in the book/movie and then share thoughts on how the church could engage them.

I think if you were to sum up The Hunger Games in a single word it would be: RELATIONSHIP. Throughout the story we follow the main character; a smart yet blunt, arrow-shooting sixteen year old girl named Katniss Everdeen. On one side of the coin we follow an adolescent fumbling with mixed feelings towards the opposite gender and on the other her relationship with the state. Kat is born into a poor district within a dystopian, post-apocalyptic country called Panem. The level of control and abuse by their government smells of Hitler’s Nazi Germany in the late thirties. As an annual reminder of the totalitarian power of the state, each year a lottery of sorts takes place to select a boy and a girl from each district to compete in The Hunger Games. It wouldn’t be so bad if it looked more like the Olympics than what took place in the Roman Coliseum. 24 teens enter the games each year with only one survivor emerging as the winner. As a result Katniss and many of her friends are cynical of those in power. She could accurately be labeled a “tomboy” if that term is even “PC” to use these days. Having grown up hunting with her father in the woods she is much more comfortable relating with the boys than the girls in her teens. We follow her interacting with two boys her age…one who is clearly a plutonic friend who took over as her hunting partner when he father died in a mine accident. The other boy Peeta, she falls in love with during the Hunger Games after she and Peeta are selected to represent their district. So in a creative story we watch Katniss work out her identity, figuring out her relationship with the opposite gender and also with her place in society. More or less this relational coin flips back and forth throughout the entire book, each having great effect on the other. One of the most vivid ways we see this is through Katniss becoming aware of using her beauty and affection for Peeta gains support from the audience and ultimately brings power over the state. She finds perhaps for the first time in her life the ability to bring about change to a world which never offers such opportunities to adolescents, especially those from the poor districts outside of the capital. No doubt this is an artistic way of illustrating the journey of every adolescent…to find their place in a dangerous and uncertain world. Of course I don’t think most teens realize this when they read the book or watch movie. Yet as with every good story they identify in some way with the main character, relating to the challenges they face and root for her to overcome them. I worked with students for 13 years as a youth pastor and every one of them had the desire to feel strong, validated, hopeful, powerful, empowered, meaningful, important, and significant. Ideally they would like to feel this way in IRL (in real life) but when unable to do so they turn to media as a replacement.

There are a number of ways churches could approach The Hunger Games. At one end of the spectrum they could do their best to create a cheesy sermon series related to the movie…something like: Hungry For Jesus, The Spiritual Hunger Games, and whatever title they choose I’m sure the worship band would happily lead the congregation in “We Are Hungry.” I hope you are laughing at this point, but sadly this is the most sincere approach churches often take to a cultural phenomenon like The Hunger Games. I don’t admire everything that comes out of Mars Hill Church in Seattle, but one thing I have always admired is their Film & Theology nights. Basically they take a film, watch it and then discuss spiritual themes you might derive from it. I attended one of these years back and found it effective simply because good movies touch us and the moments immediately following a film offer a unique opportunity for meaningful conversations, especially with strangers. I trust Mars will eventually show and discuss the Hunger Games and many will find it impacting. I still think there more effective ways for the church to address the deeper relational issues found within. Here are some of my thoughts:

Give adolescents significant leadership opportunities. Too often churches marginalize young people with most just offering programs FOR youth rather than with them. I know it’s a messy and radical idea but what about allowing a couple of students with particular leadership gifts sit on various teams/boards throughout the church? If the church has a minimum age to become members of the church why not consider lowering it a few years and allowing them to vote on significant decisions that the church needs to make. Where there is ownership there is a person who feels valuable and needed.

Teach a risky faith instead of the safe, tired, and boring Christianity. Always bothered me the vast difference between the life we teach adolescents to inspire to within the church and yet their heart longs for much more. To me this is at the heart of why they turn to sex, drugs and other various things to make them feel alive. The Bible isn’t filled with people who dress up nicely for church and sit around singing hymns and reading the Bible their whole lives, it is the stories of radicals to often abandoned everything they owned, even close relationships to pursue God. And it’s important to teach it didn’t always turn out well for them…God never promised them a rose-petalled journey, in fact quite the opposite…He promised them trouble. This flys in the fact of most of the movies Western teens see which always end with a positive, bow-tie ending. While the great narrative of Scripture ends with a positive resolution, most wont experience it in their lives.

Train adults to be students of adolescents, throwing out the lie that things are “the same as when we were their age.” Drives me nuts when I hear parents using that line on their kids…things are different than 2 years ago much less 20 yrs ago. I wonder what might be the result of taking out your church staff to view The Hunger Games and then doing a debrief asking what are some takeaways from adolescent culture. Generally speaking I believe most churches do a good job at creating an effective student ministry and fail horribly at involving them in the overall life of the church. As the adults in the congregation get to know the real world these students are facing their hearts will be bend towards them and allow them more involvement within the church body.

Create dangerous opportunities/trips. I don’t think enough thought is given to the fact that part of the lure for young people to go on mission trips is the danger involved. Some parents are explicit that the risk involved is precisely why they won’t allow their kid to go on them. Funny how that works; parents are confident trusting God to protect their kids in their own backyard but fail to do so across the border. There was a lot to fear in the middle of the arena during the games; getting killed, starving or freezing to death to name just a few. Fear is an often avoided and yet good thing for us…for the faster our heart beats the more aware we are that we are alive. Perhaps not hearing our heart beat on most days is part of the problem. When we look back over the past ten years of our life I would be willing to bet most of it fades to grey except for the moments that got our hearts racing. The church should create more of opportunities to get our hearts racing.

In the end I believe teens are starving for adventure in a world that has domesticated the human heart. Kids can’t even ride their bikes down the street without a helmet or ride in a car without 18 airbags surrounding them. The popularity of The Hunger Games and every other teen hit stands as a reminder to us of this reality. There are no shortcuts to creating adventures for teens…you must create them. As Donald Miller once said in a talk; we have to give them a better story to live out of and they will naturally choose that story over the one they are currently in. Parents who get frustrated when their boys spend endless hours playing video games would do well to heed this wisdom…no wonder they get so much push back when the alternative to a video game is cleaning their room or doing homework. The same longing for adventure that exists in your heart exists in theirs, the only difference is they might still be trying to find that adventure.

 
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Posted by on April 12, 2012 in Uncategorized

 

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Easter 2012

Oh if we could grasp the events reflected on our calendars during the past week.  Palm Sunday/Last Supper/Crucifixion/Resurrection. I am always caught off guard each year both by how it’s meaning seems to sneak up on me and also it bothers me how little this holiday means to most.

For some reason the image of a lion has captured my attention this year.  It’s a powerful image.  The Bible often uses imagery to illustrate various things and with Christ He is often illustrated by two animals. First He is called numerous times the “Lamb of God”…illustrating His sacrificial death which echos of lambs who were slaughtered to cover the sins of the people. This highlights the immense humility and kindness of Christ. The second animal tells of another dimension of Jesus character…of His strength, His leadership and ultimate triumph over evil…the image of a Lion.

For Christianity to be of any value we need both images of Christ…we need the sacrifice of a Lamb and the victory of a Lion. Many see Jesus as some colossal victim, someone who had His life snatched away from Him…of a God who lost His power.  And had the events that we celebrate this past week ended on Friday then they would be right. I love how the Bible teaches this truth and will let it speak for itself: 

If only for this life we have hope in Christ, we are of all people most to be pitied. But Christ has indeed been raised from the dead, the firstfruits of those who have fallen asleep. 

1 Corinthians 15:19-20

Sacrificed like a Lamb…He will return as a Lion.

 

 
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Posted by on April 8, 2012 in Uncategorized

 

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Cool App: aCar

Ever wanted to know just how much miles to the gallon your car is getting? Wouldn’t it be sweet to know how much money you have put into your car since purchasing it? While there’s an app for that…an app that makes storing all your vehicles history very easy. There are many apps out there that do similar stuff, but the app I use and enjoy is called aCar.  When I downgraded my 08′ Honda Civic and bought a 95′ Escort I began tracking every dollar and gallon of gasoline put into this car.  The data is huge over the course of a year. The app has a bunch of handy graphs and also allows you to see the “total cost of ownership” which basically adds everything up.  So what is my current “TCO?” $4918.11 (not including insurance costs).

There is a free and pro version…and I would definitely recommend the pro version to get the most out of it. The developer asks for a donation of $5 or more to go-pro.  I was unable to find this app for IOS users…but those with Android phones can find the app HERE.

 
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Posted by on March 31, 2012 in Uncategorized

 

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Loving Someone with Alzheimers

Spent a couple of hours with my grandpa tonight, my sister and I took him out to a nice meal and then after dropping him off at his assisted living residence at his request I stayed for a bit to talk.  As usual he was heavy on the “going home” talk.  It is a learned skill to listen to endless stories…over and over about his plan to leave in “just a couple of weeks.” While I would love to help gramps return to the life he once knew; the life where he was happier and had more freedom, the fact of the matter is that world doesn’t exist anymore. Tonight he told me emphatically that he doesn’t have Alzheimers, he just has the “normal” memory loss that everyone has at his age.  This is coming out of the mouth of the guy who at dinner salted his salad no less than 4X because he kept forgetting he had.  He also started the discussion on moving back home at least 5X tonight as if he was telling me for the first time.

I keep telling myself that this is a marathon not a sprint…that our family needs to continue to learn new skills and adapt to his progressive disease. I am doing my best to learn along the way from the “experts,” from others who have traveled this way before us.  God knows this man has given so much to our family, so much to me personally…the very least I can do is to honor him by listening to whatever he wants to say to me no matter how many times I have heard it before.

 
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Posted by on March 28, 2012 in Uncategorized

 

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Somebody That I Used To Know…

Songs have a way of sticking/resonating the more you listen to them.  Recently there has been this song that whenever it came on I found myself turning it up and made me think about relationships.  I never caught the name of the song or artist and thanks to a wonderful app “Shazam” I finally found out the song was “Somebody That I Used To Know” by Gotye.

We all can relate to the pain associated with good relationships coming to an end.  This is especially personal for me having moved to Oregon back in 04′ and then back to Michigan last year. With each move a bunch of relationships changed drastically and many people I had spent time with weekly became people that I used to know.  I wish it wasn’t this way and I’m sure some would say the same but it has unfortunately become reality.

I decided to post the video with lyrics rather than the official music video which is a little weird and took away from rather than add anything to the song for me.

But you didn’t have to cut me off 
Make it like it never happened and that we were nothing 
I don’t even need your love, but you treat me like a stranger
And that feels so rough

 
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Posted by on March 23, 2012 in Uncategorized

 

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Floating Thoughts

  • Even though I haven’t read The Hunger Games, I’m still excited to see the movie this weekend.
  • Found someone to counsel for my Pastoral Care project.  Get to have three sessions with them, hopefully I can actually help them rather than just satisfy a course requirement.
  • Slingo on Facebook is fun!
  • Speaking of games…can’t wait for the new maps to drop on MW3! Definitely tired of the old ones. #PS3
  • Watched the Walking Dead season finale last night…definitely excited to see where it goes in season 3!
  • What a crazy start to Spring! 82 degrees? 
  • My small group started a new study this week…we are learning how to study the bible for ourselves using Rick Warren’s Bible Study Methods.  
  • Applied for a “Social Media Specialist” position this week…would really be awesome if it were to work out.
  • Missing my Portland friends a ton…hope to plan a trip back soon. #dontforgetme
  • Sad how much energy drain just one challenging relationship can be.
 
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Posted by on March 21, 2012 in Uncategorized

 

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Cool App:Doggcatcher

Are you into Podcasts? If not you should be. Think of it as radio shows on DVR.  Doggcatcher is one of my most used apps. Whether it is at the gym or on the road, I use Doggcatcher to keep up with tech news podcasts and my favorite Christian sermons/talks across the country. They are podcasts for just about every topic you could fathom. One thing I love about the app and was ultimately the reason I bought it was the ability to download the entire podcast instead of streaming them. This allows you to listen to them without good internet access and uses alot less battery. I have mine setup to download the latest episodes in the middle of the night while my phone is in WiFi, that way there is always something to listen to.

Unfortunately this app is only available on Android at this time. Proof that people with iPhones do miss out on stuff ;)

There is a trial version which can be found HERE

The FULL version can be found HERE for $4.99 (well worth it)

 
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Posted by on March 15, 2012 in Uncategorized

 

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Don’t Believe Your Kids!

I recently read an article that I thought was worth sharing…especially to you parents out there. I have seen so many shy parents who were afraid to ask their kids the tough questions…consider this another reminder that they need to be asked.

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PARENTS, DONT BELIEVE YOUR KIDS IF THEY SAY THIS

By Kara Powell

As a parent and leader, I am always intrigued in hearing college students and young adults talk about what they wish their families or churches had done differently.  As we were filming the Sticky Faith Parent DVD Curriculuma young adult named Joel so well-articulated a common cry from young people.  If you haven’t yet seen the curriculum, let me give you a snapshot of Joel’s story.

Joel’s dad was removed from his family when Joel was young.  Trying to raise Joel and his brother and sister alone, Joel’s mom was often and understandably overwhelmed.  As Joel’s brother and sister ended up consuming more and more of her energy, Joel’s mom felt like she could basically leave Joel on his own because he seemed to be doing “just fine”.

The reality was that Joel wasn’t “fine”.  On the outside, he was a high-performing student, leader, and Christian, but behind closed doors and on Friday nights, he was an out-of-control alcoholic.

But Joel seemed fine.  So his mom focused on her other two young adult children, rarely even asking Joel how he was doing.

Looking back, Joel wished that his mom had asked him more questions.  That his mom had taken time to send him a note in college, give him a call or a text to let him know she was thinking about him, and probed more into what he was doing on nights and weekends.

She never asked or acted, and Joel stayed silent.

Often teenagers or young people will even tell their parents, “I am fine.  I don’t need you to follow up or check up on me.”

Parents, DON’T LISTEN TO THEM.  Please.  Don’t disengage.  Your teenage and emerging adult children still need you to care, listen, and ask questions.  They don’t need you to smother/helicopter/hover over them, but they do need you to be an involved presence in their lives.

If your child tells you to leave them alone, don’t do it.

(You can find the original post HERE)

 
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Posted by on March 12, 2012 in Uncategorized

 

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KONY 2012 (Let’s Do This)

 
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Posted by on March 8, 2012 in Uncategorized

 

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