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Seminary Update

Just finished another semester at Western and thought it might be a good time for an update. After moving back to the Detroit area last fall I transitioned to Westerns Distance Learning side of the seminary. Thankfully I am able to finish my Masters this way and it kept me from having to switch to a new school. I made a significant decision recently to change my degree from a Master of Divinity to a Master of Ministry & Leadership. After listening to a bunch of wise counsel this seemed like the right decision which will save me money and remove 30 credits consisting mostly of languages.  Fact is with the computer programs out there today at a pastors disposal, I just didn’t see the value in memorizing Greek & Hebrew… especially when I don’t plan on teaching seminary any time soon. :)

For the first time since starting in 07′ I am taking a class this summer to ensure I complete things at the end of next year.  The course is called: “Developing Your Ministry Potential” and was a prerequisite to the mentored-field ministry courses I will need to start in the fall.

The best news is that I see the light at the end of the tunnel! I will finish seminary by the end of 2013! It will be exciting to complete it and actually be able to choose what I want to read again! Hopefully by then I will have figured out a place to use what I have been learning.

 
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Posted by on May 10, 2012 in Uncategorized

 

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Social Gaming.

I did something this past week that I have never done in years of playing video games: I played with people I didn’t know IRL (in real life). Let me explain alittle further. I have been playing a popular game called Modern Warfare for the past few years and a major part of the game involves playing with others online. Sometimes you interact with people in the lobby waiting to play or boasting afterwards upon shooting them…usually I only really talked with people I knew in real life.  Not sure why this is as it has become much more common to talk and play with anyone online…but it just wasn’t something I wanted to do and I usually always had at least one friend on to play with anyways.  This week I was playing with my buddy Scott when we got invited to join these guys “party” to play with them.  With some hesitation we joined them.  Turned out to be a couple of adolescents who were very good at this game.  While Scott and I didn’t add much to their team, they seemed happy to trade their expertise for our humor.  We have been continually playing with them for over a week now and it has been cool getting to know about them more and learn tips from them.  One thing that stood out as we got to know them was that they had been playing with the other for over 2 years and have never met in real life! Woah if that isn’t a statement on how relationships are changing rapidly with each new generation I don’t know what is. Another guy we played with was in his twenties and shared that he just returned from serving 7yrs in the Army.  After Scott thanked him for his service this turned into a discussion on faith and God…crazy stuff.

In the end I’m not very good at Modern Warfare or Words with Friends…but I don’t really play them to win as much as I do to connect with people.  This is what this wave of social gaming is all about…students and adults alike are connecting through games like never before.  I was happy this week to cross-over and learn a little bit more about the people around the world that I am playing with.  Instead of just some random computer generated character running around the screen with a name on top of it, I was reminded that each represents a person like me out there…a person longing for relational connection.

 
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Posted by on May 1, 2012 in Uncategorized

 

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A Cultural Exegesis on The Hunger Games.

You may have seen my Tweet earlier this week about writing a Cultural Exegesis on the popular book/movie The Hunger Games. I had a couple of friends mention they would like to read it and encouraged me to blog it. I was reluctant at first but think some of you might enjoy it…I would love your thoughts in the comments.  I also should note this was specifically an assignment to consider something in mainstream culture and offer ways the church might effectively engage it.  Enjoy.

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Every once and awhile something comes along in pop culture that you feel you have to participate in, if only to be in the know because everyone is talking about it. These are the kind of things that you hear about at work from a co-worker, over hear people talking about at Starbucks, on the radio in the car, even plastered on the cup from your favorite fast food restaurant. Your kids ask for money to go see the movie, read the book or download the video game on their iTouch…even if you tried you could not escape hearing about it. In our fast paced post-modern world these waves tend to roll through multiple times a year where I believe generations before us had a bunch more time in-between each of them. Sadly many of these cultural phenomenons are filled with lewd behavior making it challenging for church-goers to partake without feeling guilty or tarnishing their reputation. Recently however one of these waves came along which was fairly tame and allowed Christians to interact with mainstream culture well. What I am I talking about? The Hunger Games!

What started in the fall of 2008 as a sleeper hit book for teens (sold fewer than 500,000 copies in 2009) has now become a multimillion dollar grossing box office hit and multimedia franchise selling over 10million books and analysts estimate will gross 400 million at the movies. The book was written by an unknown author Suzanne Collins who says she got the idea for the book while channel surfing between watching a reality TV show and news clips of troops entering Iraq. She also got a bunch of material from the Greek myth of Theseus as well. No doubt what brought so much attention to the hit movie (which grossed 152 million on opening weekend) was the wide acceptance by adolescents who had first read the book. Personally I was a bit late to the game as most adults are when something starts first in adolescent culture. I watched the movie having not read the book beforehand. After enjoying the movie and hearing from many of my friends what was left out from the book I decided to listen to the book on Audible during my current job which involves a ton of driving. I definitely wish I could have done it the other way around as I think it is tough reading the book after seeing the movie as all of the characters are already in your head.

There is a ton to learn from the popularity of the Hunger Games as I believe there always is much for us to learn when something resonates with the majority of people who interact with it. At its core The Hunger Games is a story, a fictional story which has many of the elements which have made stories popular since the beginning of time. I will share a couple of these elements which I saw in the book/movie and then share thoughts on how the church could engage them.

I think if you were to sum up The Hunger Games in a single word it would be: RELATIONSHIP. Throughout the story we follow the main character; a smart yet blunt, arrow-shooting sixteen year old girl named Katniss Everdeen. On one side of the coin we follow an adolescent fumbling with mixed feelings towards the opposite gender and on the other her relationship with the state. Kat is born into a poor district within a dystopian, post-apocalyptic country called Panem. The level of control and abuse by their government smells of Hitler’s Nazi Germany in the late thirties. As an annual reminder of the totalitarian power of the state, each year a lottery of sorts takes place to select a boy and a girl from each district to compete in The Hunger Games. It wouldn’t be so bad if it looked more like the Olympics than what took place in the Roman Coliseum. 24 teens enter the games each year with only one survivor emerging as the winner. As a result Katniss and many of her friends are cynical of those in power. She could accurately be labeled a “tomboy” if that term is even “PC” to use these days. Having grown up hunting with her father in the woods she is much more comfortable relating with the boys than the girls in her teens. We follow her interacting with two boys her age…one who is clearly a plutonic friend who took over as her hunting partner when he father died in a mine accident. The other boy Peeta, she falls in love with during the Hunger Games after she and Peeta are selected to represent their district. So in a creative story we watch Katniss work out her identity, figuring out her relationship with the opposite gender and also with her place in society. More or less this relational coin flips back and forth throughout the entire book, each having great effect on the other. One of the most vivid ways we see this is through Katniss becoming aware of using her beauty and affection for Peeta gains support from the audience and ultimately brings power over the state. She finds perhaps for the first time in her life the ability to bring about change to a world which never offers such opportunities to adolescents, especially those from the poor districts outside of the capital. No doubt this is an artistic way of illustrating the journey of every adolescent…to find their place in a dangerous and uncertain world. Of course I don’t think most teens realize this when they read the book or watch movie. Yet as with every good story they identify in some way with the main character, relating to the challenges they face and root for her to overcome them. I worked with students for 13 years as a youth pastor and every one of them had the desire to feel strong, validated, hopeful, powerful, empowered, meaningful, important, and significant. Ideally they would like to feel this way in IRL (in real life) but when unable to do so they turn to media as a replacement.

There are a number of ways churches could approach The Hunger Games. At one end of the spectrum they could do their best to create a cheesy sermon series related to the movie…something like: Hungry For Jesus, The Spiritual Hunger Games, and whatever title they choose I’m sure the worship band would happily lead the congregation in “We Are Hungry.” I hope you are laughing at this point, but sadly this is the most sincere approach churches often take to a cultural phenomenon like The Hunger Games. I don’t admire everything that comes out of Mars Hill Church in Seattle, but one thing I have always admired is their Film & Theology nights. Basically they take a film, watch it and then discuss spiritual themes you might derive from it. I attended one of these years back and found it effective simply because good movies touch us and the moments immediately following a film offer a unique opportunity for meaningful conversations, especially with strangers. I trust Mars will eventually show and discuss the Hunger Games and many will find it impacting. I still think there more effective ways for the church to address the deeper relational issues found within. Here are some of my thoughts:

Give adolescents significant leadership opportunities. Too often churches marginalize young people with most just offering programs FOR youth rather than with them. I know it’s a messy and radical idea but what about allowing a couple of students with particular leadership gifts sit on various teams/boards throughout the church? If the church has a minimum age to become members of the church why not consider lowering it a few years and allowing them to vote on significant decisions that the church needs to make. Where there is ownership there is a person who feels valuable and needed.

Teach a risky faith instead of the safe, tired, and boring Christianity. Always bothered me the vast difference between the life we teach adolescents to inspire to within the church and yet their heart longs for much more. To me this is at the heart of why they turn to sex, drugs and other various things to make them feel alive. The Bible isn’t filled with people who dress up nicely for church and sit around singing hymns and reading the Bible their whole lives, it is the stories of radicals to often abandoned everything they owned, even close relationships to pursue God. And it’s important to teach it didn’t always turn out well for them…God never promised them a rose-petalled journey, in fact quite the opposite…He promised them trouble. This flys in the fact of most of the movies Western teens see which always end with a positive, bow-tie ending. While the great narrative of Scripture ends with a positive resolution, most wont experience it in their lives.

Train adults to be students of adolescents, throwing out the lie that things are “the same as when we were their age.” Drives me nuts when I hear parents using that line on their kids…things are different than 2 years ago much less 20 yrs ago. I wonder what might be the result of taking out your church staff to view The Hunger Games and then doing a debrief asking what are some takeaways from adolescent culture. Generally speaking I believe most churches do a good job at creating an effective student ministry and fail horribly at involving them in the overall life of the church. As the adults in the congregation get to know the real world these students are facing their hearts will be bend towards them and allow them more involvement within the church body.

Create dangerous opportunities/trips. I don’t think enough thought is given to the fact that part of the lure for young people to go on mission trips is the danger involved. Some parents are explicit that the risk involved is precisely why they won’t allow their kid to go on them. Funny how that works; parents are confident trusting God to protect their kids in their own backyard but fail to do so across the border. There was a lot to fear in the middle of the arena during the games; getting killed, starving or freezing to death to name just a few. Fear is an often avoided and yet good thing for us…for the faster our heart beats the more aware we are that we are alive. Perhaps not hearing our heart beat on most days is part of the problem. When we look back over the past ten years of our life I would be willing to bet most of it fades to grey except for the moments that got our hearts racing. The church should create more of opportunities to get our hearts racing.

In the end I believe teens are starving for adventure in a world that has domesticated the human heart. Kids can’t even ride their bikes down the street without a helmet or ride in a car without 18 airbags surrounding them. The popularity of The Hunger Games and every other teen hit stands as a reminder to us of this reality. There are no shortcuts to creating adventures for teens…you must create them. As Donald Miller once said in a talk; we have to give them a better story to live out of and they will naturally choose that story over the one they are currently in. Parents who get frustrated when their boys spend endless hours playing video games would do well to heed this wisdom…no wonder they get so much push back when the alternative to a video game is cleaning their room or doing homework. The same longing for adventure that exists in your heart exists in theirs, the only difference is they might still be trying to find that adventure.

 
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Posted by on April 12, 2012 in Uncategorized

 

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Don’t Believe Your Kids!

I recently read an article that I thought was worth sharing…especially to you parents out there. I have seen so many shy parents who were afraid to ask their kids the tough questions…consider this another reminder that they need to be asked.

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PARENTS, DONT BELIEVE YOUR KIDS IF THEY SAY THIS

By Kara Powell

As a parent and leader, I am always intrigued in hearing college students and young adults talk about what they wish their families or churches had done differently.  As we were filming the Sticky Faith Parent DVD Curriculuma young adult named Joel so well-articulated a common cry from young people.  If you haven’t yet seen the curriculum, let me give you a snapshot of Joel’s story.

Joel’s dad was removed from his family when Joel was young.  Trying to raise Joel and his brother and sister alone, Joel’s mom was often and understandably overwhelmed.  As Joel’s brother and sister ended up consuming more and more of her energy, Joel’s mom felt like she could basically leave Joel on his own because he seemed to be doing “just fine”.

The reality was that Joel wasn’t “fine”.  On the outside, he was a high-performing student, leader, and Christian, but behind closed doors and on Friday nights, he was an out-of-control alcoholic.

But Joel seemed fine.  So his mom focused on her other two young adult children, rarely even asking Joel how he was doing.

Looking back, Joel wished that his mom had asked him more questions.  That his mom had taken time to send him a note in college, give him a call or a text to let him know she was thinking about him, and probed more into what he was doing on nights and weekends.

She never asked or acted, and Joel stayed silent.

Often teenagers or young people will even tell their parents, “I am fine.  I don’t need you to follow up or check up on me.”

Parents, DON’T LISTEN TO THEM.  Please.  Don’t disengage.  Your teenage and emerging adult children still need you to care, listen, and ask questions.  They don’t need you to smother/helicopter/hover over them, but they do need you to be an involved presence in their lives.

If your child tells you to leave them alone, don’t do it.

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Posted by on March 12, 2012 in Uncategorized

 

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Lots of Wisdom Here…

In a small, small way I can relate with this mans journey….

 
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Posted by on February 19, 2012 in Uncategorized

 

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Jumping Ship.

I’m seeing a growing trend lately that bothers me. I will admit right up front that I’m tempted by it myself at times. So what is this trend? Good Leaders leaving the church.  I can think of 5 guys off the top of my head that I know personally that have left the church or are seriously considering it. Whether it’s the frustration of church politics, serving with burnt-out or arrogant pastoral staff who won’t return calls and seem unreachable many are moving outside the church to use their gifts.  I’ve known guys who worked in a church world for a decade jump ship for a para-church ministry. I’ve seen other guys get frustrated as the church places more and more responsibility on them while keeping their salary the same year after year. Still others avoid church leadership because they don’t have “everything together”…and who would blame them with how the typical church responds when someone has a “moral failure?” (Check out this article on Mars Hill)  Recently I learned of youth pastor I respected being fired because of kicking a water bottle in an apparent exhibit of out-of-control anger at a soccer game.  Parents put enough pressure on church leadership till they caved and fired the guy after he had served faithfully there for 7yrs! Good leaders shouldn’t be so expendable. No doubt there can be a freedom that comes working outside of the church world, I’m experiencing that right now in my season away as I focus on school and family.  Most of the time I remain excited to jump back into vocational ministry, yet at other times I think about creating a non-profit organization aimed at helping churches be more effective and still other times I think it might be smarter to get a “‘real” job and volunteer at a church. Sometimes these thoughts are motivated by a better understanding of my gifts but usually come when I hear from friends struggling on the inside.

As I said many times before, what is the church left with when all the good guys jump ship? Or maybe better put, what happens when all the guys with leadership & pastoral gifts leave the church? I will let you answer that…but I can tell you for the rest of the guys on staff it becomes a drain.  Instead of looking forward to go to work you dread it. You bet as I interview for my next ministry position I’m going to be picky. Yes I’m looking for a place to use my gifts to impact God’s Kingdom, but I am also looking for a place that will invest in me, using time and resources to invest in my development.I want to be part of a church that extends grace not only to the congregation but also to its staff.

Sitting on my kitchen table is a 3X5 card with one of my goals as it relates to my next chapter in ministry:

To be part of a ministry team of like-minded and passionate individuals. 

I still think and hope that will be within a local church…but who knows.

 
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Posted by on February 9, 2012 in Uncategorized

 

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Going with Students into the Unknown…

“In working with young people in America, do not try to call them back to where they were, and do not try to call them to where you are, as beautiful as that place might seem to you. You must have the courage to go with them to a place that neither you nor they have ever been before.” Vincent Donovan 1970

Loved this quote from a book I’m reading for one of my seminary classes.  I know I’ve made the mistake in the past as a youth pastor trying to call students to where I was at…that was much easier and seemed like what I was taught to do in college.  Not that I’ve ever thought of myself as having arrived spiritually, but the idea was that students need adults who are a little further along on the journey to call them forward.  Donovan and others offer a more risky and yet perhaps more effective philosophy of ministry; to journey with students to a place where neither of you have been before. The “cookie-cutter” “one-size-fits-all” approach to ministry is no longer working for most students, any youth pastor serving today will tell you that.  No doubt its time the church becomes more aware of what God longs to do in the lives of todays students.

 
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Posted by on November 28, 2011 in Uncategorized

 

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Why Top Talent Leave Their Jobs

This week I will start yet another job that isn’t in my career path, a job that is 1/4 of what I was making in 2010…a job without insurance.  Now don’t get me wrong I’m very thankful I found SOMETHING…but it’s challenging in so many ways.  A common question I’ve gotten over the past year has been: Why the heck did you leave a good paying job with insurance in this economy?!? They might not say it just like that…but this week I stumbled on 5 reasons that I think might help you understand (and is a good reminder for myself):

 
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Posted by on September 27, 2011 in Uncategorized

 

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9 Things Your Pastor Wants To Say To You, But Won’t

Found this on another blog and thought it was worth sharing…

Here are nine things that your pastor wants to say, but might not ever tell you (and maybe should):

1. It’s not my job to share the gospel with your friends:Contrary to popular belief, it is actually your job to do that.  I am here to help equip you to share the gospel.  Stop taking the easy way out and just bringing your friends to church, and expecting me to do all the work.

2. I have a life when I’m not at church: And it’s actually pretty important to me.  Just like you have family, friends, and hobbies I do as well. Even though the church is really important to me, my life does not just revolve around the events there.  If I don’t respond to every phone call or text message right away, I will as soon as I am free.

3. It might be nice, if I knew you cared about me once in a while: Beneath this strong exterior of leadership, I have a heart that cares deeply for the people I pastor.  I would love to know that they care for me too.

4. Why is it okay for you to have nice things, but not me: I like nice things too, just sayin.

5. If you wouldn’t cry so much, I would cancel our Christmas pageant: And give the money to families who can’t afford to buy their kids gifts.  I think its what Jesus would do.  Maybe it is time to think about the real values of our church and walk in them.

6. I can’t fix your problems: Even though you might think I can, I really can’t.  I might even have a lot of good advice, but it is impossible for me to be your rescue.  That doesn’t mean I don’t want to hear what you are going through, because I really care, but all I really can do is listen and let you know God is with you, because…

7. I actually struggle with sin too: I know, I know.. I’m the pastor, but lets get real here: Pastors are people too.

8. I don’t want to run this church alone: I would rather partner with you.  Church is a community, where we all work together to bring the hope of the gospel to the world.  Your involvement is key to the success of the church and it’s ministries.

9. The gospel is about Jesus’ unending love for humanity, not your comfort on Sunday morning: The mission of the church is a little bit more serious then your music preference during our worship services.  That doesn’t mean your opinions are not valid, but let get things in perspective here.

Chances are that your pastor has actually said some of these things to you before, but the reality is that a lot of pastors are not able to openly say hard things.  I am lucky to be apart of a church that values honesty.  My heart goes out to those ministers who are not able to speak truth.  I long to see a Christian culture that is values truth over harmony.

Okay, now it is your turn.  How would you respond to your pastor, if he told you some these things? On the flip side, what would YOU like to say to your pastor, but haven’t?

Darrell Vesterfelt is a social media strategist atSheepish Design, where he is able to express his passion for social media and the church. He is also on staff at a church plant in West Palm Beach, FL as an associate pastor. You can read his blog here, and follow him on twitter here.
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Posted by on July 24, 2011 in Uncategorized

 

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Why Some Men Don’t Lead

Recently was sent this article and thought it was right on from what I’ve observed serving in church ministry over the years.  Sadly the very thing that churches thought might motivate men to lead actually backfired and has had the opposite effect.

Pain & Prejudice by Paul Coughlin

While returning from teaching at an Iron Sharpens Iron men’s conference in Hartford, CT last weekend, I chuckled out loud while on the long plane ride home back to the West Coast. I recounted in my mind some of the hilarious comments men made during the question and answer portion of my seminar about how important emotional engagement is today in marriage.

We discussed a lot of topics during the seminar: How wives, not husbands, are more likely to begin a serious conversation more harshly, so be prepared. Why responding in anger is the wrong way to get to a win-win in marriage. How childhood trauma causes many adult men to be passive and timid when it comes to emotions, and how important it is for such men to do the soulwork necessary to overcome this problem in order to meet the emotional needs of our wives.

But what sticks out most in my mind are the “Amens” and “Say it Brother” I heard when I talked about the tremendous prejudice against their male nature. When I embarked on my unusual ministry to Christian men, I assumed that it would be the younger Christian men who saw this problem the clearest, and who would be willing to undergo the hard work to correct it. Turns out, it’s men in their 50’s and 60’s who express the most disappointment, resentment, and anger toward well-meaning messages that have mishandled their masculine nature. But it makes sense to me now: they are the group that bought the propaganda the longest, tried to live by it, and who, along with their wives and children, have paid the largest price.

Here are some of the messages Christian men have been told, some for decades:

· If there is a major problem in a couple’s marriage, whether or not it leads to divorce, it is ultimately the husband’s fault.

· Women are more moral and spiritual than men.

· Women are more sensitive to the Holy Spirit than men.

In addition, Father’s Day and Mother’s Day are an opportunity in many churches to tell men how to be better fathers instead of honoring them as fathers. One man said he no longer goes to church on either day. “The pastor’s wife preaches on Father’s Day and tells us how bad we are. Then on Mother’s Day we have to get on our knees and beg our wives for forgiveness.” Ask yourself: What would happen if women were told how to be better mothers, or told to beg for their husband’s forgiveness during these special days? You know the answer.

To drive a better understanding of this prejudice home, I point out how one popular Christian author said that in 30 years of counseling, he has never seen a divorce that was not ultimately the husband’s fault. Let that radical statement from a traditionalist sink in for a moment, because this man represents much of what we hear on Christian radio, what we read in Christian books, and what he hear from guest speakers at church, supposed “experts” on marriage.

To say that in three decades of marriage counseling that you have never seen a case where the husband was not to blame for the divorce is to go through life seeing what you want to see. It is a form of spiritual delusion. Such a person should have his counseling license pulled and he should apologize to the men he has wounded.

I saw this wounding in a man who sat in my office, his foot twitching. He was told by a Christian man who claims to be a counselor that his wife’s battle with depression was really his fault. “I was told that I wasn’t the spiritual leader that I needed to be,” he told me, face turning red, anger swelling his throat. “He told me that if I would just get ‘back up on the cross’ that my wife’s depression would go away.” He no longer goes to church, yet he speaks about the church with the passion of a spurned lover. He stopped reading Christian books and listening to Christian radio long ago because he feels double-crossed.

I do what I can to help such men, but the bleeding is so great that I can only do so much. I point out during conferences that nowhere in the Bible does it state that men are ultimately to blame for their failed marriages. Or that women are more moral and spiritual and sensitive to the Holy Spirit. These are cultural fabrications put in the mouth of God. And I call this message against men what it is: Bigotry.

The Bible states plainly that though groups have distinctions, they remain equal before God in value. “For we were all baptized by one Spirit into one body—whether Jews or Greeks, slave or free—and we were all given the one Spirit to drink” (I Cor 12:13). “There is neither Jew nor Greek, slave nor free, male nor female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus” (Gal. 3:28).

I also point out that beating up on Christian men in church is good business in Christian media. The Apostle Paul wrote about this tendency in his second letter to the church in Corinth. “For we are not, like so many, peddlers of God’s word.” (IICor 2:17) Some Christian authors and speakers know that they can malign men and get away with it because guys will “suck it up” and keep coming to church. They know that their message plays well with some women. It’s hard to get a person like this to understand the problem when their paycheck depends upon them not understanding the problem.

Christian men don’t like the prejudice against them, they complain–sometimes bitterly–in private, but they keep going, though something happens to many of them beginning in their late thirties. Church becomes a chore. And a bore. They go out of duty, not because they receive much inspiration there as men, or truly helpful instruction regarding marriage and gender differences. They go because they feel they have to.

If you question this prejudice against men, then ask yourself: Why do men have “Accountability Groups,” at church, yet women have “Fellowship Groups”? Men are treated as if they are one step away from committing felonies. So they require constant monitoring, constant “accountability,” as if they are at risk of jumping a form of spiritual bail.

Bigotry robs people of dignity and value. It frustrates common and healthy human desires, creates dark psychic storm clouds, and unless a man is unusually robust, creates spiritual fissures. Bitterness, anger, and resentment seep into men’s souls, as I heard during the question and answer portion of the conference. One man used some words that I can’t restate here regarding his wife’s behavior and how handcuffed he felt defending himself and his children against her wicked tongue. He’s been told that a “good Christian man” does not confront his wife about her behavior. His spiritual training has told him that accepting abuse is synonymous with sacrifice, so he sits there and takes it. He doesn’t feel right protecting his children either.

But the biggest problems aren’t that such bigotry takes place and those who are guilty of it get away with it. The biggest problem is that with enough intensity and duration the group under fire believes the propaganda against them.

Minorities believe they are feckless.

Blondes believe they are stupid.

Christian men believe they’re spiritually deficient.

No wonder they don’t lead as they should. Or they lead, but with the unsure footing that accompanies fear, inspiring confidence in no one. Or they lead, but with ambivalence, inspiring no respect in no one either.

(the original article can be found HERE)

 
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Posted by on July 13, 2011 in Uncategorized

 

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